Frequently asked questions

  • I'm a Sydney based companion, and my standard rates apply to trysts at my incall (a ten minute drive from the CBD) and outcalls within the CBD and inner eastern suburbs. My outcall fee is proportionate to my travel costs and time - additional travel fees may apply; the booking duration must be a minimum of twice my travel time.

  • My preferred method of contact is via the contact form on my contact page; otherwise, you are welcome to reach out over email or SMS! Once you have sent through your query, I will be in touch within 1-2 business days. I don’t answer phone calls, and queries lacking manners or relevant booking information will be ignored.

    To plan our tryst, I ask for the following information:

    • Your name;

    • Your preferred time(s) and date(s);

    • Your desired location;

    • The duration of our session;

    • What in particular you would like to explore; and

    • Any other special requests.

    To secure our date I require a deposit and may request additional screening information. Keep in mind that while arranging our date, our time will not be set aside until your deposit has cleared.

    I have other commitments outside of escorting, and might not be available at your preferred time. If that is the case, do suggest any alternative dates in case your first preference falls through. To ensure an unrushed and enjoyable experience for both of us, your forward planning in arranging a date is much appreciated.

  • Deposits are a firm requirement to ensure my commitment to meeting you. Please read my Deposits & Cancellations Policy under my T&Cs for more information.

    For both your privacy and mine, my account name is obscure and discreet – you will not find a transaction made to ‘Layla Marx’ anywhere on your statement! If your privacy and discretion is still a concern, direct cash deposits allow your deposit to be made with no trace on your account. Please note that I do not accept deposits made via the teller, and any failure to obey my deposit instructions will result in the forfeiture of your deposit.  Prezzee is an excellent alternative for short notice bookings, as Prezzee gift card transactions are processed immediately (and simply show up on your account as having purchased from Prezzee).

  • Unless we've agreed on an alternative payment method, please provide the remaining balance of your booking fee in cash when we meet. For discreet payment, please place the cash inside an envelope and hand it to me before taking a shower at the beginning of our booking. This allows me some space to count the donation before putting it away.

    To avoid the awkwardness of being sent off to find an ATM, please be sure to show up to our booking with your remaining balance in cash on hand. Failing to do so may interfere with our booking time.

  • I love trying new cuisines and am open-minded to almost everything – go ahead and surprise me! If you do find yourself lost for choices, a few personal favourites of mine include:

    • Restaurant Moon (Darlinghurst)

    • Quay (The Rocks)

    • Bennelong (The Rocks)

    • Mr Wong (The Rocks)

    • Sake (The Rocks)

    • Chin Chin (Surry Hills)

    • Eau de Vie (CBD)

    As for drinks to complement our meal – I enjoy Pinot Gris, skin contact wines, Japanese sakes, and smoky whiskeys.

  • My ideal date night outfit is an elegant Zimmermann dress and Lanvin heels, paired with subtle jewellery. During the day, I love Alice McCall summer dresses and playsuits, paired with low-heeled sandals. Underneath, you’ll find a selection from my extensive Studio Pia or Bordelle lingerie collection. In terms of makeup, I like to keep it minimal to accentuate my natural features.

  • Rather than navigating the distinctions between a "girlfriend experience" and "porn star experience", which tends to lead to an experience that feels more structured than authentic, I prefer our time to be uniquely tailored by a mutual desire for whichever fantasies we explore. Rather than categorising specific fantasies or trying to create a dichotomy between two experiences that often overlap, my preference is that clients contact me with a clear indication of what exactly they wish to explore.

    And while we're on the topic of 'extras': if there is something specific you wish you explore, I encourage you to communicate this during our correspondence, but please refrain from sending through a list of services to tick off. Details about my services are there to help you determine what I enjoy; they are by no means a menu.

  • I am primarily a girlfriend experience companion, but being naturally curious and open-minded, I do have an appetite for exploring certain fetishes at my discretion. With that in mind, I am a human being with physical and psychological limitations - if a boundary or "no" is ignored, we will part ways and cease correspondence. For more information regarding services I do and don't offer, please review the services section of my T&Cs.

  • I get asked this a lot! I love to travel and visit new places, but due to commitments outside of escorting, tours have become a rare occurrence for me these days.

    Rather than asking if I have plans to visit your city, why not take the leap and request a Fly Me To You visit instead? Or if you plan to visit Sydney, I make a great tour guide...

  • My preferred advertising platforms are Ivy Societe, Dakota Dice and Tryst as they are created and owned by Australian escorts, all users are verified and they have a great user interface. Whilst I advertise on Scarleṭ Blue on and off, I urge you to switch to using the former platforms to find your independent escorts. The quality of Scarleṭ Blue's service and integrity has fallen beyond repair, and more recently, the platform has instituted a policy that places the security and safety of its users at serious risk. So risky, that many of its advertisers are leaving. While Scarleṭ Blue continues to monopolise the adult directory market and retains the SEO traffic built by its original developers, we (providers) must rely on clients to make the switch so we can rid ourselves of this disgraceful platform.

    I also maintain an online presence on Instagram (sadly, the Musk overlords have banned me on Twitter), where you can find candid snaps and musings from yours truly. I am not currently listed on any other platforms. If you find me advertised elsewhere, please let me know, because they have either stolen my images and details, or the information of the advertisement is out of date!

  • When you contact me, I may ask for some additional information in order to screen you for my personal safety. This is a standard part of arranging bookings with my clients and if you do not comply, we will not be able to meet.

    The reason I ask for this information is because while I love what I do, my profession does place me at a disproportionately higher risk for violence and abuse. While I would love to be able to trust all of my clients and adopt a completely relaxed approach to working, it is an unfortunate fact that clients with sinister intentions do exist, and they do regularly target providers. My need for your information does not arise by any means from malicious intentions, but from a need to protect my own safety. Screening is the only way I can ensure this.

    Please be assured that discretion and confidentiality are of utmost importance to me as a professional provider, and I expect mutual discretion from my clients. Should you require a Non-Disclosure Agreement as reassurance, I am absolutely happy to provide one.

  • I’m an extremely private person and just like you, I value leading a personal and professional life outside of this realm. I’d also like to ensure my own discretion, as well as my clients’ when we are in public. If you're still scratching your head pondering the personal choices of sex workers to conceal recognisable features, here's an informative blog post on this topic!

    If you are concerned about my appearance, I have tonnes of verified images (both professional and partial face selfies) and positive reviews where clients have been more than complimentary while mentioning my appearance. I have shot with renowned photographers within the industry who can verify that I am a real person - not a catfish. I have gone to great efforts to accurately convey my appearance and overall aesthetic on my social media platforms, including Twitter and Instagram where you will gain a good sense of both my appearance and personality.

    If you find that my reviews, photos and description of my appearance are still inadequate and you still insist on seeing my face, then it is clear we are not compatible. There are so many reputable face-out companions around, that it is unnecessary, not to mention a rude display of power play, to demand face-in companions to out themselves.

  • Absolutely! I do not discriminate on the basis of gender, sexuality, race, age, disability or level of sexual experience. In fact, I love that my work has provided me the opportunity to see people of such a diverse range of backgrounds. As long as you’re polite, respectful and legally able to consent, I am happy to see you.

    However, please note that I am not a trained disability service provider. If your ability to verbally communicate presents as an issue during booking negotiations to the extent that I am unable to confidently navigate consent during our booking, I may politely decline to meet. If this is the case, I'm more than happy to refer you to a disability-trained peer who can better accommodate your needs.​

  • As I’m sure you already understand, a provider’s time is never free, but I do offer social dates at a reduced rate! Please note that social dates must be arranged in a public place, and that no intimacy is included in this booking.

  • Generally, no. I set my rates at what I feel is an accurate reflection of the current market and the quality of my companionship.

    However, I do reward clients who have taken the effort to show that they value my time. Requesting a date well in advance, arranging your deposit quickly, and building up rapport will ensure that you are well taken care of!

  • Whilst I appreciate the intent behind wanting to leave a positive testimonial of our time together, please refrain. After years of establishing myself as a reputable provider, I no longer wish to engage with review culture and actively discourage new clients from publishing testimonials. By asking this, I ask that you not compromise my privacy and discretion by exposing my personal details or publishing explicit erotic details for the world to see.

    Reviewing an interaction with a human, especially one so intimate, is pretty weird and does not sit right with me ethically. Every encounter I provide as a companion is unique to each person, and reviewing that encounter as if it were a product or narrowly defined service cheapens the spontaneity and bespoke nature of what happens during each interaction.

  • While gifts are by no means expected, they are a thoughtful and lovely gesture! You can find my preferred brands curated in my wish list below (or my Throne wish list here), and my Beem It handle is @beemup.

Wish list

Lingerie: babylikestopony, Edge 'O Beyond, Studio Pia. Bordelle, Tisja Damen, ID Sarrieri, Fleur du Mal (bra size 32B, panties XS-S)

Giftcards: As a frequent traveller, I very much appreciate gift cards for flights! I also adore Prezzee, Mecca, Aesop, Kinokuniya, Eckersley's Art & Craft, and day spa gift cards.

Apparel: Zimmermann, Aje, Ted Baker, Bec and Bridge, Kate Spade, Wolf & Badger, Wolford, Muscle Nation

Scents: A La Rose Eau de Parfum by Maison Francis Kurkdjian, Tobacco Vanille by Tom Ford, Replica By the Fireplace by Maison Margiela

Culinary treats: TWG tea, Japanese fruits, chocolate (The Chocolate Line and Haigs are lovely), charcuterie boards (minus the cheese)

Liquor: I enjoy sake, skin contact wines, and peaty whiskeys.

Flowers: Orchids, Australian Natives and cherry blossoms are my favourites. Due to allergies, please don't bring lilies to our tryst.

Books: I love a good cook book or coffee table art book. Currently on my book wish list - The Flavour Bible (Karen Page and Andrew Dornenburg), Dali Pop-Ups (Courtney Watson McCarthy), The Whole Fish (Josh Niland), Everything (Abigail Ahern)

For the fur baby: The best way to a provider's heart is by spoiling her cat! Happy & Polly and Paw Paw Up are two of my favourite online stores. If you're looking for something on the day of our date, treats from Puppcorn are also appreciated.

Homewares: Le Creuset and Maison Balzac. Lately I've taken up baking and have my eyes on a stand mixer...

Toys: Something to enjoy during our rendezvous (or a gift card from Max Black or Pleasure Chest).

Any items purchased from my wishlist can either be brought to our date in person, or giftcards emailed to me at:

hello@laylamarx.com